One of the most common problems divorce attorneys and mediators see in their clients is a desire to fight over small things that do not make much of a difference in the long run. This is only natural; after many years of major disputes, spouses are frequently motivated to get control of the outcome of their divorce in any way they can. Unfortunately, while this instinct is understandable, it is also counterproductive when it comes to mediating a meaningful compromise on major issues involved in a divorce, such as child custody arrangements and property division. Here are eight things that divorce experts suggest you should not spend time fighting about during your divorce.
Appliances
This category extends to tools and other equipment. While some tools and appliances can be valuable, they are rarely unique or have sentimental value. It is better to let these things go and let the spouse who prefers to have the tools have them.
Animals
Pets and other animals can be a hard thing to manage in divorce because both spouses often have a deep attachment to them. However, animals and their products are considered property in Texas. Instead of fighting over an animal, consider whether you want to be attached to your spouse with “custody” of an animal or whether it would be better to get your own.
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