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Minimizing the effects of divorce on the kids

| Jun 10, 2019 | Uncategorized

Divorce is one situation where the effects of the behavior between separating parents have more of an impact on the kids than the process itself. Many separating couples in Texas find it challenging to look past their own feelings and wants to protect their children. Divorce is not necessarily an easy process, especially with kids to consider, but it can be an amicable separation.

The end of marriage marks a big transition where countless changes must occur to reestablish family stability and security. Here are some pointers to make it easier for parents to meet those challenges head-on and mitigate the impact on their kids.

Spend as much time as possible with the children

During the separation process, one parent often ends up spending less time with the kids than the other. Parents should arrange their schedules to devote as much time as possible to their kids. If there are new work commitments and living arrangements that reduce the amount of functional parenting time, parents should work to maintain contact and interact with their children in other ways, such as video chats, special outings and an increase in visitation to prevent feelings of abandonment and resentment.

Be present and aware

Children often develop emotional and behavioral responses to negative life events like divorce. They may not come right out and say how they feel about the matter. Parents should always remain alert to their kids behavioral and emotional needs. Any signs of uncharacteristic behavior should trigger discussions with the other parent and facilitate counseling or therapy intervention early on to help kids cope with their feelings.

Stay respectful towards each other

Children deserve two parents who are respectful and thoroughly committed to their health and happiness. As painful as divorce is, it is possible for people to co-parent respectfully. By maintaining a respectful attitude towards each other, spouses show their kids that their failed relationship has no bearing on their feelings or commitment to their children.

Parents who make a conscious effort to remain in control of their feelings and actions and work to preserve the mutual lines of respect and communication can shield their children from the severe and often lingering aspects of their divorce.